Somebody asked me if long distance marriage can work without sex, no, it cannot work without sex. I don’t know why people just like to be deceived into something that simply doesn’t work!
Healthy couples have sex an average of 3 times a week. Stress, advancement in age, sickness or body ailment may slow it down to once a week or much more less, couples still have the comfort of each other’s bodies and can do other things to douse the sexual fire!
Long distance marriage creates sexual tension, it doesn’t douse it!
Some couples do sex video, masturbate, go very dirty and whatever they can do to relieve the sexual tension but it doesn’t cure anything, it simply adds petrol to the fire!
Until a man have real sex as in real intercourse in flesh and blood, he will be restless and sexually unfulfilled and will be very sensitive to women, in plain language, he will face more sexual temptation he may be too weak to handle!
Same with women.
Some of the women I counseled who cheated on their husbands were in long distance marriages.
By all means, stay close to your spouse. If it is completely unavoidable due to work, do all in your power to move and go live with your husband wherever he is. If that is not possible, find ways to see physically at least monthly and have as much sex as you can before he travels back. If once in a month is still not possible, meet at least once in 3 months.
One of the reasons we get married is because of hot, steaming REGULAR SEX! Don’t let any religious fanatic tell you otherwise! Paul said its better to marry than to burn! It is a “crime” to be married and still be burning!
Not everyone in long distance marriages cheats but the struggle for sexual purity is always high! They have to battle hard to stay sexually sane and not sin!
Help your spouse overcome sexual temptations with ease by being physically available always to douse their sexual fire and relieve every sexual tension in their soul and bod